Rich Men Dating – find and meet rich men

I’ve recently been using facebook to try to find some eligible bachelors.  However, I haven’t had an luck lately.  Actually this last one was more like a nightmare than anything.

I found Joe on facebook just simply browsing around.  He claimed to be a former basketball star and in all of his pictures he seemed like he was rolling in money.  I’m talking yachts, Crystal champagne, VIP tables at the hottest clubs and he has a least 5 different Rolex watches (well I’m about 75% sure they were Rolex from what I saw).  He was adorable, light brown hair, blue eyes and really really tall 6’8 to be exact.  I’ve never even met anybody that tall!  We decided to meet for drinks at this trendy little bar.  I was a few minutes late but as soon as I walked in I recognized him right away.  We exchanged hello’s and hugs and I sat down.  Right away I noticed the HORRIBLE acne scars he had on the side of his face.  His teeth were beautiful so I tried to keep my eyes focused on them.

Everything was going great until he went to pay for the drinks and the worst thing in the world happened!!!!  His credit card declined!  I was so embarressed for him I really didn’t know what to say.  I just took out my card and paid for the drinks.  We sat there for another 20 minutes and he excused himself to the bathroom.  Two minutes later I got a text message from him say “I’m really bad at awkward good byes but it will never work out between us.  I left goodbye”.  My jaw dropped to the floor, my face turned bright red and my eyes filled up with tears.  I couldn’t believe this just happened!

This date was a nightmare!  Not only did I end up paying for our date but then he ditched me in the end anyways.  Note to self NEVER date basketball guys.

I set up my new online dating account on Wednesday and seriously an hour later I was talking to Travis.  Travis is hot in a bad boy kind of way.  He looked and talked like the total Alpha Male type.  I was so giddy talking to him for some reason.  He said he owned a couple of nightclubs in the city and had some real estate investments.  I was definitely excited to hear that he owned nightclubs because I love to dance.  And if I were to date the owner I’m sure I would be treated like royalty there, so exciting!

Travis said we should meet up for lunch on Friday.  I’m not a big fan of lunch as a first date because you usually can’t drink (unless you want to look like a total lush) and the date usually ends after you eat.  He text me Thursday and said to meet him at the mall food court for lunch.  I couldn’t believe what I was reading!  The mall food court was he being serious right now.  I don’t want to sound stuck up but I haven’t been to a mall food court since I was probably 16 years old.  I messaged him back suggesting we go to an actual restaurant instead.  He said ok but didn’t sound too happy about it.  This guy owns night clubs so he has to have money I don’t understand what the problem is here.  Red flag maybe?

Friday an hour before we were supposed to meet he calls me to cancel the lunch date!  He was really short with me and didn’t really give a reason.  He didn’t even offer to reschedule.  I personally think he was a fake but regardless there was definitely something off.  I guess its back to the drawing board!

Online dating can be fun but its also very competitive.  Some of these woman are professionals and have been doing it for way longer than I have.  You have to be at the top of your game to win the heart of your perfect rich guy.  Its the survival of the fittest so to say.

Lets use the situation with Tom as an example.  We had a great time but I still haven’t heard from him.  It has been almost a week now!  “Three day rule” went out the window a few days ago.  I don’t really like to think about this but I might not have been the only girl Tom was seeing.  He must have liked the other girl more than he liked me.  I get a little sad when I think about it but it must be true.  Why else would he not make an effort to see me again?

I know that looking good is only half the battle but sometimes you need to just pamper yourself.  I”m going to get a facial, massage, manicure/pedicure and haircut this week.  Trust me I really need it and I haven’t spoiled myself for awhile.  When you feel good about yourself, confidence oozes out of your pores, your eyes light up and men notice these things from a mile away.

Not only do you have to make yourself look beautiful ouside but you also have to work on your inside too.  Being pretty will only get you so far.  The smarter you are the better your chances are of getting that perfect guy.  I love to read!  I’m a bit of a sucker for romance novels but for every fiction book I read I make myself read 2 educational books.  Anything from politics to stocks.  Not the most entertaining stuff in the world but it will definitely feed your brain.

If you’re creating a profile for online dating you should always keep it as interesting as possible. You should cover a lot of different and interesting subjects so that any guy who checks it out it can find something he can talk to you about. I have found out that music is something all guys love. I mean, everyone likes music and it turns out that especially men do. I’ve always said that the best way to a mans heart is through his ears – okay, and his stomach;-). Maybe it sounds a bit simple and silly, but trust me – this one works.

A friend of mine did indeed prove my theory correct just recently. She wanted to date online and asked me to help her out with a good profile. We put in the profile that she likes Bon Jovi. Around an hour later she had some 10 inbox messages from guys, all talking to her about… music. It was a serious ice breaker and it actually gave them something to open up and talk to her about.

When you are writing a dating profile you need to mention at least one favorite band or performer. I seriously recommend you to include classics such as Led Zeppelin, Beatles, Bon Jovi or maybe Jimi Hendrix. TIP: you should actually like the music a little and should be able to name at least a few songs.

Outside of talking about music you could talk about some of your favorite artists, photographers or actors. You could also include some of your favorite movies and/or books.

Looking good isn’t always everything that matters when it comes to finding the perfect partner with money. You should be funny and able to talk about a lot of different things. I’ll post some good and bad profile another day – you can really learn a lot by looking at examples.

Hi girls!

I have spend so long time dating online lately it’s crazy. Feels like I’m just sitting at home and looking at the screen. I’m almost getting scared of meeting up in real life!

But I found out that I received a lot more responses to my emails if I changed the text a little. I normally don’t really know what to write so it’s usually “Hi, nice profile” and then I hope they respond.

I mean, they are the guys right?

Especially rich men are good at taking the initiative but if he really has a LOT to offer, then you need to aggressive too! That’s at least what I found out, and I don’t mean “aggressive” like screaming. But you have to be smart about what you write. Let me give you an example:

1)If you write “hi ” then it is so easy for them NOT to answer. I mean, there is no question, nothing of interest! Instead, get a question in there: “Hi, nice profile – I see there are no sports photos. Or are you a “stay at home guy”?”

This works – he WILL answer.

2)Slutty pictures. Pictures of cleavage will get you a lot of email – but think about the kind of guy that writes them! These are not from the long term sugar daddies that I’m looking for, that’s for sure.
3)Boring photos. Have photos where you smile, not only the “serious” ones. Sounds simple, but I noticed a lot of other girls have these ONLY.

Lighten up, then it’s easier for him to write you!

It’s been a while, but I just realized that I’m very good in online dating! It takes a little while to get it right and once you do – you’ll get so many responses!

First of all, you NEED a good profile photo. If you don’t have one then find the friend that’s into photography. Everyone has one of those these days, I think. Take some good photos, but don’t overdo them. Look natural and happy! Also, if you can take one doing one of your hobbies it not only shows that you are active (if it’s sports) but that you are a fun girl. And this is very important in order to stand out. Look at the competition – they are staged and I found that I get more responses posting one of my running photos than my old profil picture taken at a friends wedding!

Second, write a profile hooks! This took me a while to figure out, but hooks are what makes a guy write you because sometimes they shy too. And what is a hook? It is something that he can ask you about, something that is natural. If you write: “I really like music but still don’t know which Springsteen record is the best one – I’m leaning towards Lucky Town. What do you think?”. If the guy is a Springsteen fan for SURE he will write you!

Third, be online a lot. Sounds easy and it is! All dating sites list people with the ones that are online first. You might as well pop up first on that list, right? What I do is when I’m home I’ll just leave the computer logged on to a few dating sites and go about doing my other stuff, cleaning washing and what not.

Then the emails will start coming

Hello y’all!

I’m so happy these days I don’t know why. Maybe because my friend just had a wonderful little girl or maybe just because Christmas, my favorite holiday, is approaching. I don’t know, but what I DO know is that it is a great time to try to find a rich man.

Okay, it is ALWAYS a good time to find a rich man, but Christmas is a time where singles want to start a relationship. Why? Because it’s a ll about family, all about settling down and having a good time and, well, BEING with somebody.

You might feel like this but what is more important is that the guys will have this feeling as well. That’s right, they may not know it, but they will be looking for a mate over Christmas. Okay, more so than in the spring at least!

Even though you are busy I recommend trying to find someone on Facebook in addition to your online dating adventures. Why not?

Facebook is for free, there are a lot of members, more than any other site in the world and everybody uses it almost daily.

I recommend trying some of the dating applications and see if they work out for you.

If not, then try to go through your friends list of friends and send out a few “hellos”! Never hurts being a little aggressive yourself!

The big trick is to know when you are talking to a rich guy and when you are not. I normally try to look at the profile picture. Is it a guy in a suit? Then see his photos. Are there fast cars? Or is it all going to night clubs and bars? The latter I wouldn’t even touch.

I want to see a photo of his place in the country side because I want to go there!

Good luck and let me know how you’re doing!

If you’re looking for a rich man, the online dating could be for you. There are a lot of rich guys out there just waiting for you to email them. If you want to good guys with money there’s a lot of competition and the trick is writing the right text. You need to stuff your profile with really interesting things. Let me tell you what a bad profile looks like first:

Hellooooo my name is Camilla. I like going shopping and to travel and I guess just money. I’m 27 and I go to college. I like hoping to the gym and I guess my favorite food is French. I’d like to meet someone smart, wealthy and handsome.

That’s a very bad and boring profile to me. There is no catch, nothing special and basically no information. I found THIS, on the other hand, which is an example of a good dating profile:

Hi! My name is Meliss and sorry, but I’m new to dating online. I’m hoping to meet new and interesting people. I’m mid twenties, still in school and I’m majoring in journalism. Spare time, well, I really love animals, especially birds! I have the cutest little bird in the world, his name is Patrick an he doesn’t bite. A bit “guyish” but I really like cars and my favorite is a 1967 Ford mustang with racing stripes. I like art too! My favorite artist is Andy Warhol even though he’s very commercial I still like his stuff. If you’re looking for someone like that then I guess you should send me an email

You do see the difference here, right? Start out by putting some facts in there that makes it easy for him to start a conversation – he needs some hooks! The last one is an open invitation – he can talk about journalism, art, dating and birds!

The key to is to get a lot of interesting things in there. Once he sees something you have I common then he will write an email for sure. And stay away from Italian food, even though it’s true – it’s to common!

Finding rich men online is the best way to meet the man of your dreams- especially if you are insistent about finding someone with a cushy bank account! Face it- not everyone can hobnob with the rich and famous at the drop of a hat. But ladies- let me warn you- an astounding 30% of men on online sites are absolute fakes! So I thought I’d warn you about spotting these imposters before you start wasting time on them! Here’s how I identify frauds that are just out for a good time-at your expense!

$1-Exotic Strangers from A Distant Land- uh oh! I have been there and done that! But honestly, I am yet to meet the king of a faraway land who is interested in dating women from a different zip code! It’s like this-if a rich man is interested in dating women online, he would be looking for women he can actually meet- and not once a month! Ignore all contact attempts from people living a few hundred miles away!

$2-Tall Claims-rich men online are NOT prone to making declarations of undying love the moment they meet you. I don’t know about you- but it absolutely freaks me out if I come across such tall claims early on! It’s simple logic actually- how can a person KNOW that he loves me if hasn’t met me yet?

So how do I deal with these claims? I just tell them that they’re moving too fast! If he’s a conman, it’ll send him packing!

$3- Asking For Money- um… a rich man wouldn’t! Need I say more?

No matter what sob story he cooks up( I actually met a man who said that he was a rich tycoon stranded in a foreign country, and that he needed some dole)- run!

I’ve gone by these rules when I’m looking for rich men online- and they’ve been pretty useful!

The secret’s out- rich men online are looking for very specific things! I talked to a number of girls who dated successfully on these sites- and they were ALL of the same opinion!

#1- Your Appearance, Says Tracy- Meet Tracy one of the hotties on these sites! She scored an amazing 23 requests on a site catering to rich man online! “No matter where you are meeting rich men- you need to look hot without being slutty and elegant!” she said. Tracy regularly updated her photos on these sites and I’ve got to say this- she looked a keeper in every one of those photos! Okay, now on to Gabbie (that’s how she spelt it, don’t blame me!)- “what’s you guilty secret” I asked…

#2 Gabbie’s Secret-“the real devil’s in the details” she quipped. “It’s not only about being hot- these guys pay attention to a LOT of details. Your manicure, makeup, pedicures and even the quality of your tan matters” she continued.” Why do you think that?”I asked. “Well’ she explained, “a man who’s used to the finer things in life will expect you to be aware of YOUR finer points- so look into the details. They are a dead giveaway” she warned! I couldn’t argue with that!

#3-Trish’s Advice- “rich men online, just like rich men everywhere, don’t like you to fawn all over them” she told me when I asked her about her secret! She was another high scorer on the date rich men sites! “They like mystery and puzzle in the women they date, so you’ve gotta give them those”, she grinned conspiratorially. “How do I do that?” I asked ‘innocently’. “For instance, you want to revv up the looks but still be an interesting conversationalist! You CANT be a dumb blonde…”she retorted. I patted MY blonde hair- I know what she meant!

Rich men online are just waiting for the right women – go out and get them before these girls do!

Bye for now

Helen