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Playing with the Big Boys

10 Mar

If you get lucky enough to catch yourself a really big fish you need to know what to do.  I’m referring to the MEGA rich men with the net worth over 50 million.  These are a rare breed so if you find one you need to know a few things.  They’re are used to getting what they want and women tend to throw themselves at them so you have to be hard to get.  You can can be the sweet/naive girl or the strong/smart girl, pick your angle and stick to it.  Most importantly know their lingo so you can keep up with the conversation.

The MEGA rich men are very spoiled sexually.  Women try to use sex in order to catch these guys.  Maybe it will work for a little bit but it will never result in anything long term.  If the guy doesn’t want to be with you because you are hard to get then he’s clearly not the right guy for you.  Playboys can be fun but more than likely will end up in heart break.

Every girl has an image they put out when dating.  Sweet and innocent girl next door or intimidating smart girl.  Figure out what he looking for and pick the that fits.  If he lets you boss him around a little go with the smart girl.  If he’s a super alpha male type then you better off being the sweet girl.

If you’re going to walk the walk they you have to talk the talk.  Your going to meet his friends and their girlfriends/wives and you have to fit in.  Stay on top of fashion shows, up and coming designers and know what a pair of Christian Louboutin shoes look like.

Playing with the big boys can be intimidating but definitely will worth it.

Justin… Could He Be An Undercover D-Bag?

22 Feb

After the great date with Justin the Nerd, I was officially on cloud 9.  Justin is a refreshing change.  He was totally opposite from the guys I normally date but he couldn’t be anymore perfect!  Well except this one little thing.  We’ve been text messaging nonstop since our date and somehow the conversation has turned a little sexual.  I wasn’t totally innocent, I admit I was flirting but he took it to a whole other level.  Now I’m a bit uncomfortable with how our conversation is going.  He’s been trying to get me to come over to his house.  He’s not even trying to cover up his intentions with dinner or “movie night”.  Justin made it sound very enticing and a little part of me really want to go over there but I knew I couldn’t.  If I did, it would ruin everything.  We had such a perfect date wine, fireplace, innocent kissing so why do I feel like a booty call now?  If he looked at me as only booty call material why did he say “our combined awesomeness is nuclear”, was that supposed to be code for something and I’m just totally missing it?

As hard as it was to turn him down I did.  The next day he did it again!  It was driving me NUTS.  I almost snapped and told him to go F**K himself.  Maybe this is what he normally did with girls and it actually worked.  They see that he’s loaded and they do whatever he wants.  Well that’s not going to work on me no matter how wealthy he is.

Whatever I’m doing must be working because he invited me to go to Vegas with him and his business partner and his MUCH younger girlfriend.  I have a feeling its going to be a crazy weekend!

Ben from London

3 Feb

I think my bad luck dating streak is finally over!  I’ll soon need some dating advice, lol. I’ve been talking to this really great guy named Ben.  He just moved here from London about two months ago and we hit it off right away!  He has a really cute face but he’s a little bit on the short side for me only 5’8 which means I won’t be wearing my super high heels anymore (tear tear).  But what he lacked in height he totally made up for in personality and his adorable accent.  Why are we American girls so fascinated with accents?  Ben’s accent made me melt!

We decided to meet for drinks and then to go see a comedy show the other day.  I was more nervous than I have ever been since that horrible date with Joe.  The fear of being ditched again almost made me want to flake out completely.  I’m glad I didn’t though because Ben was a really great guy!  We had a ton of things to talk about.  He was a successful poker player and was involved in some kind of family business that dealt with sports betting (still not really sure what that means).  After a few drinks to break the ice we went to go see the comedy show.  It was HILARIOUS!  I was laughing so hard I actually snorted but thankfully he didn’t hear me because it was so loud in there.  I highly recommend comedy shows for a fist date because I had a blast.

After I got home Ben called me to make sure I got home alright and to tell me he had a great time.  He asked me out on another date so we’ll see how this goes.  It definitely seems promising.

Time to MOVE on

30 Nov

I’ve been seeing Mike pretty regularly since the beginning of October but I’ve been having doubts lately.  It first started 2 weeks ago when he went off on a waitress when she didn’t give him the extra fork he requested (don’t ask me it must be some weird OCD thing).  Then again last week, I accidentally left my phone at home one day and when I got home later I had about 7 messages from him.  This behavior was not acceptable!  I think he sensed that I was getting annoyed so he sent me flowers but that really didn’t help.

Not only that but I’ve been think a lot about Tom.  I had such a great time with him but he still hasn’t asked me out on another date.  He actually never even wrote me back after I said “I had a good time as well. How about Saturday?”.  Sometimes I just don’t understand men.  I know one thing for sure I will NEVER chase a man no matter how great he is.

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about whether or not I should continue seeing Mike.  My gut tells me I need to break up with him.  I definitely starting to see some major red flags.  I really liked him in the beginning but now I just can’t get the image of him yelling at that poor waitress out of my head.  Its only a matter of time before I start being the victim of his angry tirades.

Now it just comes down to how to end it.  I am notoriously HORRIBLE at breaking up with someone but a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do.  I really should just do it face to face but I’m a little scared.  What if he freaks out on me?  Maybe I’ll write him an email?  I’ll keep you posted on what happens.

Park date

28 Nov

So, I eventually went on a date today with Tom – you remember, the fitness freak?! We eventually decided to meet at a local coffee place first. As I was arriving late he sent me a text message asking me what I wanted to drink so I told him to surprise me! When I finally got there I recognized him straight away as he had a paperboy hat on (haha) and some really nerdy glasses. To be honest, he wasn’t what I usually like but for one reason or another I really felt comfortable around him.

His surprise order turned out to be an iced coffee. Good choice Tom, I was thinking! We were chatting about everything and nothing and our coffee conversation was just so natural. I honestly felt as if I had know him for years and years. His personality was so different and I felt that like a nice change

After the iced coffee we went to ride some roller coasters! What a fun date! We went on all the scary rides they had there. Maybe he was thinking that I would get too scared when we got to the biggest one they had but of course I wouldn’t give him that kind victory. We walked through the whole park eating cotton candy and that was really fun. I felt like a little girl and we really had a good time. We never had a dull moment and we both told stories about everything.

After the date he ended up by my car and he gave me a huge goodbye hug. When I got in the car I found out my cheeks were hurting from actually smiling so hard! I had butterflies fluttering around in my stomach and it felt great. Maybe he was “the one”? When I arrived home I got a text from him saying “I had the best time with you! I really want to see you again – how about you?”. I let him wait 15 mins and then texted back saying “I had a good time as well. How about Saturday?”. I’ll let you know what will happen! I’m really exited about this one.

Dating married men

18 Nov

Hi friends and readers,

Before I sort of started going out with rich men, I was always thinking to myself that it would be great to be dating a married man. Just like in the movies where I could be “the other woman”, the one on the side who would go on weekend trips to Paris, get sexy underwear and the one he would like to run away with.

Well, recently most of you have probably noticed that I’ve been dating pretty heavily, to say the least. Or “seriously” would probably be a better word!

Now, I kept this as a secret for you all (sorry!) but 2 were actually married – ring and everything. I’m sure I was ruining a family, that’s what I’d like to think at least, but I got the feeling that I was just a breath of fresh air to these wonderful guys and as such there’s nothing wrong with that. I guess.

But I had a couple of drinks with a friend the other day, and we started talking about all this and then it hit me: there’s absolutely no way ever a guy like that is going to leave me. Why would he? The classic “ a younger model”? Yes, I guess so, but what are the odds? I think these guys want to keep the family but still have fun. Best of both worlds.

I think the kids and the reputation in the golf club means more to men nowadays than it used to. Everything is so polish now and have to have the right wife, the right kids – and a hot mistress! That’s me and I’m starting to think that’s all there is for me.

My conclusion ended up being: do NOT date married men if you want to settle down with a rich man yourself. These guys see you as fun, as part of the package but never the main part of it.

I’m sorry, but I think that’s how it works. Anyone to prove me wrong??

Rich men and their watches

16 Nov

Girls, I received an email the other day (wohoo, doesn’t happen that often!) about watches. How rich men always wear these expensive watches and how to tell them apart. And if there’s one thing wealthy me have in common, outside of their love for fast cars and younger women, it’s a solid interest in watches. Expensive, big and chunky watches.

Now, I’m no watch expert, but I do follow a few good rules of thumb – if you want to see if he has money. Not if it’s a good watch, I don’t know anything about that, lol. Here are some of the watches I recognize and that I have found they tell at least something about your date’s income level:

Rolex: My favorite! All the rich guys have this brand. If they are really into watches they may have more, also some I don’t really know, but they will always have a Rolex in the collection. After a while, you will see it if he owns it.

Tag Heuer: Medium. If it’s one of the old ones it could be really expensive. The Tiger Woods ones are not really for rich people but be aware – it is also the watch for the guy that doesn’t really care about watches.

Omega: Medium+. Normally higher income than Tag Heuer but not Rolex league. If it’s the James Bond version then I think you’re dating a 24 year old ;-) .

One thing to take into consideration is his interest in watches. If he says he is really into watches and has a James Bond Omega, I’d be afraid I would have to pay for lunch! On the other hand, so to speak, if he is not into watches having a Tag Heur could mean nothing – he could care about other things.

You for instance!

Fitness freak dating!

10 Nov

You all know that I’ve been really busy with my online dating life recently. I am dating a little here and there recently and I hope I don’t get caught, lol ;-)

So, I’ve been chatting with Tom who is so serious about sports. He’s not 30 anymore but he’s really fit. That’s what the photos say at least because he’s been too busy to meet up which is actually okay – I’m kinda busy seeing other guys and I really need to be fit for meeting him! Seriously, I need to lose a few pounds before meeting up with him, at least to get a little self confidence about it.

Tom wrote me the other day and said that he could “clear his schedule” tomorrow. Tom, I feel so special right now… But okay, he’s busy so he’s just honest! Let’s see what happens, I accepted of course.

Tom wanted to go for a trip but dinner is better for the first date, I think – you get to talk and if it doesn’t work out then you can always split up. Imagine being in his cabin and finding out that you were just fighting all the time, lol.

I picked a really nice restaurant and he will like it. I checked the menu before knowing that I had to find one with healthy options. Imagine if they only had burgers and fries…

Let’s see what will happen. I have a new dress ready but he has to be really sharp as I’ve been on some very nice dates recently, as you know ;-)

I’ll post a follow up, kisses to all.

Ann

Finding them on Facebook?

3 Nov

Hello y’all!

I’m so happy these days I don’t know why. Maybe because my friend just had a wonderful little girl or maybe just because Christmas, my favorite holiday, is approaching. I don’t know, but what I DO know is that it is a great time to try to find a rich man.

Okay, it is ALWAYS a good time to find a rich man, but Christmas is a time where singles want to start a relationship. Why? Because it’s a ll about family, all about settling down and having a good time and, well, BEING with somebody.

You might feel like this but what is more important is that the guys will have this feeling as well. That’s right, they may not know it, but they will be looking for a mate over Christmas. Okay, more so than in the spring at least!

Even though you are busy I recommend trying to find someone on Facebook in addition to your online dating adventures. Why not?

Facebook is for free, there are a lot of members, more than any other site in the world and everybody uses it almost daily.

I recommend trying some of the dating applications and see if they work out for you.

If not, then try to go through your friends list of friends and send out a few “hellos”! Never hurts being a little aggressive yourself!

The big trick is to know when you are talking to a rich guy and when you are not. I normally try to look at the profile picture. Is it a guy in a suit? Then see his photos. Are there fast cars? Or is it all going to night clubs and bars? The latter I wouldn’t even touch.

I want to see a photo of his place in the country side because I want to go there!

Good luck and let me know how you’re doing!

5 places to bump into a wealthy guy

29 Oct

I noticed I’ve posted so many posts about my life that is a long ago that I actually told you all where you can casually bump into rich men, lol.

I’ll recap and make a top 5. These are the places that I find work the best. Yes, you CAN find a wealthy man at the bakery, but the chances of finding are way higher other places, so let me run you trough those places. Just so that you don’t forget!

1)Art galleries. Oh, these places are so good! Be sure to go established art galleries, though. Up and coming galleries can work, but often the big fish go to well known ponds. Don’t just go there during normal business hours but attend openings where there are more people. And brush up on the artist and art in general, it’s good to have ammunition for the initial conversation

2)Golf clubs. A classic hang out for wealthy men. Try to go there when there is a tournament or a gathering. Just hanging out may work, but you can be out of luck and go a day where there’s nobody there. And if you’re not THAT much into golf it’s a long day, lol!

3)Yacht clubs. High end yacht clubs are great for meeting guys with money. You know how much a yacht is?? Be aware of imposters, though – this is also a place where you find A LOT of wanna bees.

4)Cruise liners. Someone told me this could be a great place although the smartest thing would be to get a job there. But then again, then you would get paid to date! Be aware that they might be in a relationship if there on a cruise though.

5)Online. Just works, find a dating site and pay up. Rich men have little time and know that the online dating game is a great way to meet nice girls. Like you and me!